One Flesh by Elizabeth Jennings: context, form and key methods
A grown-up child observes their elderly parents, who now sleep apart. Passion has faded, but a quiet bond remains. This poem is in copyright, so it is described mainly in our own words.
Context and Jennings's purpose
The title comes from the Bible and the marriage service, where husband and wife become 'one flesh'. Jennings asks what that means for a couple in old age, when physical passion has gone.
Form and structure
Stanza one describes the parents lying apart in separate beds; stanza two reflects on their lack of passion; stanza three wonders at how they are still bound together.
The poem ends with a question, showing the speaker's uncertainty.
Language and key methods
Paradox: they are described as "strangely close together" even while apart, which suggests a deep, quiet bond.
Fire and cold: the speaker asks how the passion from which she was born has grown cold. Similes of waiting and silence suggest they are close to the end of their lives.
Compare how long-term relationships are presented in One Flesh and The Manhunt.
- Both poems show a couple whose closeness has been damaged.
- Jennings's separation imagery and paradox; Armitage's images of injury.
- AO3: old age and Catholic marriage; a soldier returning from war.
Answer: Both Jennings and Armitage present long relationships in which physical closeness has become difficult. Jennings's parents lie "each in a separate bed", and the image shows passion that has simply faded with age. Armitage's couple are kept apart by war injuries and trauma, and the wife must slowly explore the damage, from the scars on his face to the hidden wound in his mind, before he lets her come close. While Jennings's poem ends with a puzzled question about how love has grown cold, Armitage's builds towards understanding and closeness. Jennings shows time separating a couple; Armitage shows war doing so, and love working to overcome it.
Jennings, Catholic; 1966; title from the marriage service. Three sestets, regular rhyme. Separate beds; one reads, one stares at shadows; paradox ("strangely close together"); fire grown cold; ends with a question.
- Context
- The circumstances in which a text was written and set, such as historical events, social attitudes and the writer's life (AO3 in the GCSE, AO4 in the International GCSE).
- Form
- The type and shape of a text: for example sonnet, ballad, free verse, tragedy, comedy, novel or play.
- Rhyme scheme
- The pattern of rhymes at the ends of lines, labelled with letters, such as ABAB.
- Stanza
- A group of lines forming a section of a poem (a verse).
- Speaker
- The voice of a poem. The speaker is not always the poet.
- Imagery
- Language that creates a picture or appeals to the senses, including similes, metaphors and personification.
All GCSE and International GCSE English Literature key terms and definitions โ
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